I’m sure your friend Julian appreciates your friendship. Of course he
should be welcome in the church. The church is the body of Christ and the
pre-requisite to admission is a belief that Christ is the redeemer promised by
God and a desire to live as He taught and witness the fact to the world.
The church gives us communion with other believers and encourages us as we
worship, learn and share in each other’s lives. Being composed of
imperfect people results in all kinds of imperfect behavior. However, it
is blessed by Christ himself as we seek to worship truly and love as He loves.
It seems that the only examples of people being cast out of the early church
were those who professed Christian faith and lived arrogantly claiming they
were now free to do anything they wanted because they would be forgiven.
Obviously their focus was on themselves and not on pleasing God.
I’m not sure what you meant that Julian hasn’t been accepted into the
church. Do they shun him? Have they refused to let him
“join”? Are they just rude?
Is it because some people think he is practicing homosexuality? Even if
that were the case that is not a reason to not accept someone into your
fellowship. However, the church has the responsibilty to give teaching
positions only to those who live as close to biblical teaching as
possible. Julian’s genetic situation is not common but the situation of
his soul is common to all people. We do all need to be forgiven and
changed. We all need to recognize that we are selfish creatures created by God
for communion with Him. Christ came for the express purpose of making God
known to us and to substitute himself to pay the bill for our willful, sinful
core so we can be made like Him. So as Christians we know we are loved by God
and have the opportunity to accept Christ’s subsitution for our
wrongness. I hope your friend knows the peace of God’s forgiveness and
Have a great day. Too bad we are separated by so many miles. Love
to [your family],